Working as a Domina or Bizarrlady – Basic elements in theory and practice



“Dominance cannot be learned, rather, it is intrinsic.“ The basic assumption that many women keep this side of themselves quietly suppressed must be laid to rest. The work spectrum of a professional domina is so extensive, however, that training in this area may seem daunting and complicated.

In the past this knowledge was taught to the apprentice by the experienced domina little by little. For areas in which the mentoring domina lacked proficiency, the student had to arduously aquire the experience themselves through trial and error with a client. This is rarely the case anymore.

We often have inquiries as to opportunities for training or practice in domination; therefore we would like to meet this demand with our newly developed training concepts.

The basic workshop provides the necessary structure for the professional work as a Domina oder Bizarrlady. Depending on personality and previous experience, entry as either novice or apprentice domina is possible. A solid foundation will be laid for further independent training, and the common myths regarding the work of a domina will be replaced by realistic assesments. Generally the theory of “learning by doing” is not opposed, as long as all participants proceed with empathy and self reflection. We help you to obtain this mindfulness and a healthy self-assessment, as well as recognising the needs and wishes of the client.

It’s all about crafting one’s skills in theory and practice. Of course, one cannot strive for perfect training in just three days; however we can provide a professional basic understanding on an anatomical, technical, psycho-social and legal basis.

An important piece at the end of the workshop is sussing out your first personal profile as a domina. What skills can you offer? What is your dominant personality like?

The diversity of the industry is also apparent in the 3 lecturers; they all have very different skillsets and bring exactly this variety to the workshop. The lecturers’ teachings come directly from personal practical experience. They want to give you the courage to try new things, and guide you in your first independent steps.



Course content:
Friday from 13:00 til 20:00

Disambiguation:

  • What is BDSM?
  • Varieties of Dominas
  • Various fields of practice: Domina, Bizarrlady, Passive, Slave, Switch, Active/Passive playmate, Maid, Fetish lady
  • Job profile (Review of personal results d. Information evening) (what does the ‘d.’ mean?)
  • Technical vocabulary as it pertains to BDSM

S&M as a service:

  • Client desires, imagination and reality
  • Keeping a professional distance
  • How do I design a session?
  • Rollplaying: (examples and practice)
  • Maskplay und breath control
  • Petplay
  • Doctorplay –> Notice: no clinical training
  • Interrogation games and prison scenarios
  • Immobilization : ‘To be at her mercy’
  • Dominant Massage
  • Erotica and S&M? Contrasts and comparisons.

Skills:

  • What should a domina know? Basic knowledge

Saturday, 11:00 – 19:00

Health and Safety:

  • Risks and Dangers, Liability
  • Safe session preparation
  • Psychological wellfare

Medical play

Restraints, part 1

Knotwork and cabling, standard knotwork, bondage
Conflicting discussion (pros & cons?)
Hand spanking, floggers, flaggelation and caning with play instructions
CBT (Cock and ball torture)
Nipple play
Anal games, fisting
Loss of control, unusual games, overstepping boundaries

S&M as a service:

Preliminary meeting with practical exercise
Sensual session preparation
The golden ticket : cum techniques with guaranteed success

Domina profile:

Sussing out the first personal aptitudes
What’s my client like? First impressions (I think maybe this is off) Punktesammlung?

Sunday, 11:00 – 17:00 Uhr

S&M as a service:

Fetishes. What sorts are there? What’s behind them?
Feminisation and cross-dressing
Foot and stocking woship
Cuckolding
Dirty Games und Dirty Talk
Dealing with difficult clients (dead fish)

Practical exercises:

Restraints, part 2
Repetition
Creative bondage on the fly
Toys : fun demonstrations and testing

Marketing:

Common advertising opportunities for your specialties
Client profiles und advertising language
Advertising tips

Domina profile:

Ascertaining personal curiosity
Realistic brand evaluation

Everyday Tasks:

• Realistic representation of service perspectives
• What is the impact of investment?
• Timesinks: Marketing, Mails, Phone,…
• Insurance and taxes, how to make heads or tails of it.

Overview:

• Where and how can one work as a domina in Berlin?
• Networking



This class is taught in English only!

Please bring writing supplies, there is no script, but taking notes is recommended

Suitable for:

Sex workers who wish to alter or expand their services
Other interested parties, who already have some private BDSM experiences


Domme Course 26.-28.6.2020

650,00 700,00 

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