BDSM Beyond Binary – SERVED: A D/s Dinner Party

SERVED is a fully-immersive domination workshop & kinky community building event, centering queer, trans*, and sex working kinksters.

Seasoned pro-dommes to beginning kinksters are welcome to come hone their dominant craft in this workshop.

In two parts, participants are first invited to explore the dominant part of their persona through a guided visualization of their dominant self & a collective, kinky altar-building exercise.

Then, workshop participants are invited as guests to a kinky dinner party where their dominant persona can come out to play! Accompanied submissives are welcome to join the feast to serve. What’s on the menu? A fine-dining experience is is catered to the tastes & wishes of the participating dom/mes. To participate, please leave your email so the facilitator can be in contact with you about your culinary preferences 😉

Mercy St. J

Mercy St. J (they/them) is an Amsterdam and Berlin-based sex worker, dominatrix, writer, photographer, and community organizer. In their work, whoring represents not only labor but also a creative practice and a political tool: a way to play with power, shame, and desire, while simultaneously questioning systems that regulate and marginalize queer, trans*, and sex-working people.

Mercy is the founder of Full Service Productions, a sex-worker-run production organization in Amsterdam and Berlin, conceived as a living homage to the poetry and politics of queer and trans* whores. They organize projects that center sex workers as creators and cultural actors, including a cabaret series featuring queer sex workers at the Casa Rosso Theatre in the de Wallen Red Light District.

fullserviceproductions@proton.me

Who can participate?

All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know.

Accessibility

People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.

In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.

Corona

Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.

The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.

  • Sprache Englisch

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€ 15.-
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€ 30.-
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€ 50.-
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Date

09 May 2026

Time

17:00 - 21:00

Local Time

  • Timezone: America/New_York
  • Date: 09 May 2026
  • Time: 11:00 - 15:00

Cost

€30,00

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Queer

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Mercy St. J
Mercy St. J
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  • Sprache Englisch