BDSM COACHING
One-on-one coaching with the professionals from Studio LUX
And a little bonus:
If you’d like to put your new skills into practice right away, you’ll receive 10% off a private rental of our studio rooms directly after your coaching.
Our Coaches
Lady Velvet Steel
BDSM offers many opportunities for self-knowledge and development. Theoretical & practical expertise form the basis. Methodical work, an empathetic basic understanding of my clients’ needs, constant development and critical questioning of the techniques I use are the foundation from which I build my coaching sessions. Individuals & couples of all passings welcome.
I dedicate myself to your concerns in practical coaching sessions on the subject of BDSM technique and show you what is important. It is particularly important to me to enable you to develop your own skills based on a good foundation.
I offer specialised mentoring for (prospective) colleagues. My professional practice and many years of experience in training experienced colleagues will give you valuable input and enable you to advance your career.
I support people from private contexts in all aspects of kink, BDSM partnerships, typical scene behaviour, BDSM dating and much more. I welcome the curious couple, but also the shy beginner.
Selina Morgan
With nearly a decade of experience as a dominatrix, educator, and performer, Selina Morgan offers expert guidance in exploring and refining BDSM practices. What sets her apart is her deep understanding of psychology, consent dynamics, and the emotional aspects of power exchange.
She creates a judgment-free space where individuals and couples can explore their desires, refine their skills, and navigate their personal journeys with confidence. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to take your skills to the next level, Selina provides practical, hands-on coaching tailored to your needs.
Selina believes that kink is not just about technique — it’s about connection, self-discovery, creativity, and communication. Her approach is inclusive, trauma-aware, and rooted in creating safe, empowering experiences that align with your boundaries and desires.
From technical skills to mindset shifts, Selina will help you build confidence, improve your skills, and embrace your unique kink journey — without shame, fear, or societal expectations holding you back.
Ms. Pepper
Human bodies with all their physical and mental sensations are pure beauty for me. When play partners trustingly surrender to being touched in the most intimate places, erotic magic happens.
I am on a mission to make sexuality understandable beyond heteronormative penetrative sexual intercourse and promote the shame-free exploration of one’s own lust and fantasies.
As a workshop facilitator and coach, I combine technical knowledge, practical experience and emotional sensitivity.
After several years of intensive exploration and self-awareness of my own sexuality and the world of BDSM, I have accumulated a wealth of knowledge, skills and experience. I am happy to be part of your personal journey and support you in gaining valuable experience.
Miss Juliette
Somatic sex coaching has been my main profession for several years now. In addition to certified Sexological Bodywork, Holistic Bodywork and Tantra, I also offer Sacred Intimate sessions and Interactive Erotic Coaching. In the latter modalities, I use my own body to support your learning, whether it be BDSM topics, the expansion of your sexual experience or specific challenges such as premature ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, painful sex, erection problems or dating and porn addiction.
My sessions are a blend of counselling, somatic exercises and bodywork. They can also include two-way touch if this is relevant for your learning goals. I am also happy to guide you if you are new to BDSM, if you wish to talk about your fantasies and desires – or live them.
I am specialized in working with so-called “Absolute Beginners”, in other words people who are already mature, yet have little or no experience with intimate, sensual or sexual encounters.
Ron Hades
I’m Ron (no pronouns), a non-binary queer sex worker, porn performer, activist and kink educator. I’ve been guiding people to explore their sexuality, desires and relationships more consciously since 2018 - with over seven years of experience as a Dom, coach and instructor.
My coaching approach is open, non-judgmental and empathic. My aim is not to set fixed rules, but to support you in finding your own way. Each person has their own story, needs and limits - I listen, ask questions and give input so that you can find out what is right for you.
My goal is to create a safer, inclusive space where learning, growth and self-expression are possible.
Lara Vixette
With my many years of expertise in the world of sensual dominance, humble submission, and in-depth BDSM knowledge, I offer not only intense experiences but also coaching for anyone looking to better understand themselves and explore their own boundaries. My approach combines depth, respect, and individuality — whether you want to discover new facets of your personality or expand your knowledge. With me, your desires, fantasies, and personal development are at the center of attention.
My coaching sessions combine well-founded expertise with an appreciative, individualized approach. Thanks to my extensive experience in previous professions, I possess strong skills in nonviolent communication, resolving inner conflicts, and structured analysis and prioritization of needs. My goal is to support people with sensitivity on their personal journey, open up new perspectives, and provide a judgment-free space for growth and self-discovery.
Valeria Bitte
I’m Valeria – your expert advisor for BDSM, taboos, and kink. I guide individuals and couples in exploring their desires in a safe, open space and living their pleasure without shame. Whether you’re looking to discover new dimensions of intimacy or resolve relationship conflicts related to these topics, I provide experienced, empathetic support to help you and your partner align your needs.
Tamara Solidor
For many years I have been working in different areas of sex work – whether in a brothel, as an escort or sexual escort, as a sub or bizarre lady. This work moves, privately and professionally, in many different fields of tension. One of the most important insights for me was that socialisation and environment constantly determine which life realities, goals and desires are granted to us – both by ourselves and by others. Recognising and breaking down such patterns is so fundamental to my life that I want to pass on this knowledge as a coach.
I attach great importance to understanding backgrounds and the practical applicability of my support. From setting boundaries to formulating needs, from communication to self-assertion. Which relationship model do I want to live? How do I manage changes in desires, demands and ideas? Can selfishness and family be reconciled? Do kinks end with parenthood?
Good coaching helps to perceive and implement one’s own needs as a strength, not as an adversity in everyday life.
Bellatrix DeVil
As an experienced dominatrix with a master’s degree in sexology, I combine in-depth expertise with practical experience. I accompany people in workshops, coaching sessions and sexual counselling sessions in a calm, empathetic manner. I am passionate about BDSM, sexual fantasies and conscious communication.
In my coaching sessions, I create a safe space in which you can explore your desires, recognise boundaries and discover new facets of your sexuality. I work with methods from sexual counselling and give you impulses for self-reflection - combined with concrete exercises suitable for everyday use.
Whether you are new to the world of BDSM or already deeply immersed - I will accompany you empathically, clearly and with a twinkle in my eye on your very own path.
Our Coaches
Lady Velvet Steel
BDSM offers many opportunities for self-knowledge and development. Theoretical & practical expertise form the basis. Methodical work, an empathetic basic understanding of my clients’ needs, constant development and critical questioning of the techniques I use are the foundation from which I build my coaching sessions. Individuals & couples of all passings welcome.
I dedicate myself to your concerns in practical coaching sessions on the subject of BDSM technique and show you what is important. It is particularly important to me to enable you to develop your own skills based on a good foundation.
I offer specialised mentoring for (prospective) colleagues. My professional practice and many years of experience in training experienced colleagues will give you valuable input and enable you to advance your career.
I support people from private contexts in all aspects of kink, BDSM partnerships, typical scene behaviour, BDSM dating and much more. I welcome the curious couple, but also the shy beginner.
Selina Morgan
With nearly a decade of experience as a dominatrix, educator, and performer, Selina Morgan offers expert guidance in exploring and refining BDSM practices. What sets her apart is her deep understanding of psychology, consent dynamics, and the emotional aspects of power exchange.
She creates a judgment-free space where individuals and couples can explore their desires, refine their skills, and navigate their personal journeys with confidence. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to take your skills to the next level, Selina provides practical, hands-on coaching tailored to your needs.
Selina believes that kink is not just about technique — it’s about connection, self-discovery, creativity, and communication. Her approach is inclusive, trauma-aware, and rooted in creating safe, empowering experiences that align with your boundaries and desires.
From technical skills to mindset shifts, Selina will help you build confidence, improve your skills, and embrace your unique kink journey — without shame, fear, or societal expectations holding you back.
Ms. Pepper
Human bodies with all their physical and mental sensations are pure beauty for me. When play partners trustingly surrender to being touched in the most intimate places, erotic magic happens.
I am on a mission to make sexuality understandable beyond heteronormative penetrative sexual intercourse and promote the shame-free exploration of one’s own lust and fantasies.
As a workshop facilitator and coach, I combine technical knowledge, practical experience and emotional sensitivity.
After several years of intensive exploration and self-awareness of my own sexuality and the world of BDSM, I have accumulated a wealth of knowledge, skills and experience. I am happy to be part of your personal journey and support you in gaining valuable experience.
Miss Juliette
Somatic sex coaching has been my main profession for several years now. In addition to certified Sexological Bodywork, Holistic Bodywork and Tantra, I also offer Sacred Intimate sessions and Interactive Erotic Coaching. In the latter modalities, I use my own body to support your learning, whether it be BDSM topics, the expansion of your sexual experience or specific challenges such as premature ejaculation, orgasm difficulties, painful sex, erection problems or dating and porn addiction.
My sessions are a blend of counselling, somatic exercises and bodywork. They can also include two-way touch if this is relevant for your learning goals. I am also happy to guide you if you are new to BDSM, if you wish to talk about your fantasies and desires – or live them.
I am specialized in working with so-called “Absolute Beginners”, in other words people who are already mature, yet have little or no experience with intimate, sensual or sexual encounters.
Ron Hades
I’m Ron (no pronouns), a non-binary queer sex worker, porn performer, activist and kink educator. I’ve been guiding people to explore their sexuality, desires and relationships more consciously since 2018 – with over seven years of experience as a Dom, coach and instructor.
My coaching approach is open, non-judgmental and empathic. My aim is not to set fixed rules, but to support you in finding your own way. Each person has their own story, needs and limits – I listen, ask questions and give input so that you can find out what is right for you.
My goal is to create a safer, inclusive space where learning, growth and self-expression are possible.
Lara Vixette
With my many years of expertise in the world of sensual dominance, humble submission, and in-depth BDSM knowledge, I offer not only intense experiences but also coaching for anyone looking to better understand themselves and explore their own boundaries. My approach combines depth, respect, and individuality — whether you want to discover new facets of your personality or expand your knowledge. With me, your desires, fantasies, and personal development are at the center of attention.
My coaching sessions combine well-founded expertise with an appreciative, individualized approach. Thanks to my extensive experience in previous professions, I possess strong skills in nonviolent communication, resolving inner conflicts, and structured analysis and prioritization of needs. My goal is to support people with sensitivity on their personal journey, open up new perspectives, and provide a judgment-free space for growth and self-discovery.
Valerie Bitte
I’m Valeria – your expert advisor for BDSM, taboos, and kink. I guide individuals and couples in exploring their desires in a safe, open space and living their pleasure without shame. Whether you’re looking to discover new dimensions of intimacy or resolve relationship conflicts related to these topics, I provide experienced, empathetic support to help you and your partner align your needs.
Tamara Solidor
For many years I have been working in different areas of sex work – whether in a brothel, as an escort or sexual escort, as a sub or bizarre lady. This work moves, privately and professionally, in many different fields of tension. One of the most important insights for me was that socialisation and environment constantly determine which life realities, goals and desires are granted to us – both by ourselves and by others. Recognising and breaking down such patterns is so fundamental to my life that I want to pass on this knowledge as a coach.
I attach great importance to understanding backgrounds and the practical applicability of my support. From setting boundaries to formulating needs, from communication to self-assertion. Which relationship model do I want to live? How do I manage changes in desires, demands and ideas? Can selfishness and family be reconciled? Do kinks end with parenthood?
Good coaching helps to perceive and implement one’s own needs as a strength, not as an adversity in everyday life.
Bellatrix de Vil
As an experienced dominatrix with a master’s degree in sexology, I combine in-depth expertise with practical experience. I accompany people in workshops, coaching sessions and sexual counselling sessions in a calm, empathetic manner. I am passionate about BDSM, sexual fantasies and conscious communication.
In my coaching sessions, I create a safe space in which you can explore your desires, recognise boundaries and discover new facets of your sexuality. I work with methods from sexual counselling and give you impulses for self-reflection – combined with concrete exercises suitable for everyday use.
Whether you are new to the world of BDSM or already deeply immersed – I will accompany you empathically, clearly and with a twinkle in my eye on your very own path.
Coaching + Private Room Rental
Want to take things further right away?
When you book a coaching session with us, you’ll receive 10% off your private studio rental afterwards!
Choose from our 8 themed rooms, enjoy high-quality equipment and a beautifully space – experience BDSM at its best.
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Theory Online
150,00 €incl. 19% VAT
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Theory in Person
200,00 €incl. 19% VAT
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Practical Training
250,00 €incl. 19% VAT
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