BDSM Workshops

Learning from professionals

Our offer is as diverse as the people who join our workshops. Here you’ll find an overview of all formats and the individual courses and events we offer in English.

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Evening Classes

Role Play

We will explore why Role Play is such a popular activity for so many, uncovering and unpicking some of the many different types of play that can be made, coming to a deeper understanding of the appeal that comes with escaping into other realities. Together we experiment with creating new personalities, gaining the tools to create exciting new adventures and bringing a new dimension of play to your sex or kink life. Whether for you it looks like a switch of authority, a switch of gender, or even a switch of species, there is something for everyone to delve into and discover.

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Info Evening

Is working as a dominatrix, bizarre lady, dominus, switch, sub, etc. the right thing for me? We offer insights into the daily work, the studio and the possibilities to enter professional SM. You are allowed to ask all questions.

This course is for all curious & open-minded people.

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Needle Play

Needle Play

You have seen the nice pictures of decorative needles and want to be able to do it yourself? You like to poke other people and want to learn to really put something through their skin? You’re intrigued by needles? You like to play with blood? Then this is the workshop for you.

In this workshop I will teach you how and where you can safely pierce the body. I will talk about how the body works, how you handle the needles and make a safe working environment.

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Cock & Balls

If you are a fan and a lover of cock and balls, are just curious about all the different ways to play with them or simply need to learn some basics in how to handle them you might benefit from taking this course.

This course will be focusing on teaching people how to pleasure and play with the cock and balls along with some basic information and of course demonstrations on various toys and techniques.

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Anal

Are you a seasoned enthusiast of anal play, eager to expand your knowledge, or perhaps a newcomer curious to explore this realm? Our Sex-Ed Anal course offers the perfect gateway to this intimate world.

Join us for a comprehensive journey into the art of anal play, designed for both beginners and those with a growing interest. This hands-on workshop is a safe space to explore, learn, and practice the nuances of anal pleasure.

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Sensation & Pressure Points

General sex-ed does not mention sensations as a part of sex yet we know how adding a simple blindfold or the right kind of music can add to sexual pleasure and help set the mood. In relation to BDSM using senses and sensations is an important way to create the right atmosphere and start to a good session. There is much to experience and learn through this subject in relation to pleasure and pain. In this course we aim to go deeper into what sensations and sensory play has to offer when it comes to general pleasure and sex.

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Talk Dirty to Me

This workshop offers an exploration of sexual communication with adaptable activities designed for individuals and partners. Together we will create a safe and comfortable space in the beautiful Studio LUX’s bright Kurs room to build trust and celebrate personal boundaries. We will cover topics such as what to say, how to initiate and how to ask for what we want.

Participants do not need to be in a sexual relationship with their partners or group members as the event is about learning and trust-building. At my workshops this often results in a playful learning environment. The workshop is designed to let participants engage at their own comfort levels and experience level. It is ideal for those curious about enhancing their sexual communication skills, both with established partners and new connections in a supportive group space.

You will leave this workshop with a renewed reminder of the beauty and importance of intimate communication. You will have had a chance to reflect on this alone and with the group, learning from other people’s experiences and ideas. This workshop will leave you with useful tools and a renewed confidence to keep exploring this topic.

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What’s My Kink?

This workshop is suitable for everyone who is just beginning their BDSM journey, as well as for anyone with specific preferences seeking insight into other people’s kinks and fetishes. The workshop does not only consist of a theoretical part, elaborating on psychological and physiological aspects of different kinks, but also gives the participants an opportunity to explore various kinks and fetishes with a hands-on approach.

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Half day

Blood Play

Blood play in BDSM is considered edge play and has certain risks that all the participants should be informed about. Blood play can rarely be SSC (safe, sane, and consensual) and is mostly practiced as RACK (risk-aware consensual kink) or PRICK (personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink). The keywords are informed consent: with the help of this workshop, you will learn how to minimize your risks to fully indulge in the blood fetish.

This workshop will give you a unique opportunity to learn more about blood as fetish and blood play as kink. In this class you will learn about and get a chance to practice.

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Bound to Please

Master the art of quick and playful restraint with creative bondage techniques that don’t require endless knot tutorials or fancy equipment. Learn how to tie securely in seconds, turn everyday objects into tantalising tools, and keep the mood flowing without the fumbling. Because sometimes, you just want to tie them up
 quickly.

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Mindful Masturbation

Pleasure-Oriented Reflection and Self-Experience with Masturbation!
Masturbation is an intimate, pleasurable experience that everyone can explore individually – but shame and taboos often make it difficult to engage with it freely. In this workshop, we focus on mindful solo sex, reflect on personal habits, and discover new ways of pleasure. After discussing motivation, fantasies, and routines, you will experience a one-hour guided self-exploration with music – in a safe space without physical interaction with others. Orgasms are possible but not necessary – what’s important is the journey. We conclude with time for reflection and discussion. Whether you join alone or as a couple: If you want to rediscover masturbation as a sensual experience, this is the right place for you.

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Day courses

Dominant Massage

Lady Lila combines her skills as an erotic masseuse with those of being a Domina and has been offering Dominant Massage for those into teasing pleasure with a side of adrenaline. This kind of massage can be as relaxing and enjoyable, or intense as you wish to make it. We will begin by feeling into our own bodies, covering briefly what makes a good erotic massage and Dom/sub session, before we explore how adding different elements of BDSM to the mix can enhance pleasure, trust and closeness.

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Impact Play

Knowing how to use an impact tool before playing with someone is essential, so is engaging with the play partner and understanding their nonverbal feedback. Learn how to interact with your play partner in an authentic way to deepen your impact play scenes and let your personality shine.

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Film School Basics for Sex Industry Professionals

Wanting or having to create your own video content is becoming a more and more vital part of working in the sex industry. For many, this means having to handle the difficulties of producing it without prior training, many times with limited resources (equipment, money, skills and time!). This class is a mix of theory and practical learning. The workshop will give you the skills to create quality content efficiently, effectively, and affordably. Instructed by Andy Erson, who has over a decade of working expertise in light, sound, and camera, it will provide you with practical knowledge and skills, that are tailored around the real needs of creating your content. So, if you’re completely new to this or if you are looking to refine your skills, learn new ways or put your current best-practices to a test, Film School Basics might be just the right way to go.

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Confident Dominance

One’s own dominance can present quite a few challenges: Stage fright before the session hitting the right tone, dealing with your own insecurities. In this course we explore our own dominance and practice attitude, appearance and communication.

This course is for beginners & people with some experience.

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Bondage Beginner

Beginner’s Course  is designed to teach the basics of shibari, understanding restriction from a passive perspective and the simple skills of the rigger to enable fantasies or create a meditative connection.

This course is suitable for absolute beginners.

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Shibari Harness

Do you already know basics, but you don’t know what to do with it? Or Ever found yourself struggling to recall the intricate patterns of shibari harnesses after attending workshops? Unravel the mystery and join us for a unique experience in our Shibari Harness Workshop.

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Rope Predicament Erotic

Embark on a captivating journey into the realm of rope bondage, where sensuality meets intensity. Our “Rope Predicament Erotic” workshop offers a diverse exploration of techniques ranging from soft and meditative to downright erotic. Discover the artistry of teasing, denial play, and the intricate interplay of ropes in this immersive session designed for beginners.

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Suspension Beginner

Introduce yourself to the fascinating practice of suspension bondage. Suspension is one of the highlights of Shibari bondage and combines aesthetics and adrenaline in an unforgettable mix. Nevertheless, this art involves skilfulness since it may pose threats to safety. In this workshop, therefore, not only gives you the taste of the magic but also enables you to learn the important techniques that will keep you and your partner safe during playtime.

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How to Sub: An Intro

The workshop delves into the intricate world of submission and how we all chose to relate to it. In the beautiful Studio LUX’s bright Kurs room we will settle into the topic through group discussion and self reflective topics.

We will cover topics such as types of submission, negotiating a scene, aftercare and much more. This day-long workshop is designed to move with your energy level, experience level and learning style. Participants do not need to be in a sexual relationship with their partners or group members as the event is about learning and trust-building. At my workshops this often results in a playful learning environment.

You will leave this workshop with a deeper understanding of what it means to submit. You will have an idea of your own relationship to this mindset. You will have had a chance to reflect on this alone and with the group, learning from other people’s experiences and ideas. This workshop will leave you with useful tools and a renewed confidence to keep exploring this topic.

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Power of Seduction and BDSM Manipulation

In this workshop, we will explore the art of seduction and manipulation within BDSM relationships. Whether you are a beginner or experienced practitioner, this workshop will provide you with the tools and techniques to enhance your skills and deepen your understanding of power dynamics from a more intimate point of view.
Seduction is a powerful tool that can be used to create desire, build tension, and establish control. By learning this art, you can captivate someone’s attention, evoke their desires, and ultimately lead them on a journey of pleasure and submission.
BDSM manipulation, on the other hand, involves the strategic use of power dynamics to influence and control someone’s behaviour. By understanding the psychology of manipulation and the impact of power dynamics, you can effectively guide someone into surrendering to you.
Through a combination of theory and practice, you will learn how to harness the power of seduction and manipulation to create intense and fulfilling experiences.

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WORKSHOP SERIES

BDSM Beyond Binary

At the queer event series, BDSM Studio Lux offers a safer space to explore the many facets of BDSM and kink, set personal boundaries, and gain new experiences. Whether you are simply curious or already experienced, our events are open to all queers who want to live out their lust and creativity in a respectful environment.
Monthly changing formats and a variety of BDSM expertise, captivating performances, sexy poetry, erotic art, lustful dance, sensual play and pleasurable bodywork await you!

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Weekend Workshops

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Pro SM

Getting started in professional SM is not necessarily intuitive. Colleagues and those who want to become one will find the basic information for a successful start into the BDSM career here. This course is aimed at (aspiring) professionals who want to work as dominatrixes, bizarre ladies, masters, dominus, switches, subs and the like. Some know it as a domina course.

Part 1 offers the absolute basis. If you have little to no sex work or BDSM experience, then this is the right course for you. You will learn the legal basics of working in Germany, BDSM basics, session structure, client conversations and develop your first profile. After the intensive weekend you will be able to take your first professional steps, have already practised and have a pretty good idea in which direction you will continue your education. You will have a solid knowledge of client needs and be able to hold your first, simple sessions.

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Events

BDSM Life Drawing

We are excited to open our doors to welcome your creativity and artistry at our BDSM Life Drawing! The life drawing scenes will be featuring our superb team of professional kinksters, dominant, submissive, and switch, set against the backdrop of the fantastic course room at studio LUX. This unique opportunity takes advantage of the impressive range of our BDSM tools, including a multitude of different toys and fetish gear and furniture which can be utilised in the scenes.

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Gift Card

Gift a voucher for participation in a workshop. This way you can give your loved ones a practical and lasting pleasure.