BDSM Workshops

Learning from professionals

Our offer is as multifaceted as it is versatile. Here you will find an overview of the different formats and the individual courses & events. An overview of all dates and ticket booking is available here: Dates.

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Weekend Workshops

The weekend BDSM workshops are our most intensive offer. On 2 or 3 days we impart a concentrated load of knowledge and practice. Here you will find compactly what you need for an intensive thematic occupation.

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Pro SM

Getting started in professional SM is not necessarily intuitive. Colleagues and those who want to become one will find the basic information for a successful start into the BDSM career here. This course is aimed at (aspiring) professionals who want to work as dominatrixes, bizarre ladies, masters, dominus, switches, subs and the like. Some know it as a domina course.

Part 1 offers the absolute basis. If you have little to no sex work or BDSM experience, then this is the right course for you. You will learn the legal basics of working in Germany, BDSM basics, session structure, client conversations and develop your first profile. After the intensive weekend you will be able to take your first professional steps, have already practised and have a pretty good idea in which direction you will continue your education. You will have a solid knowledge of client needs and be able to hold your first, simple sessions.

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Our workshop series build on each other – so you can expand your expertise, knowledge and practice one after the other. Of course, you can also join at any time – as long as you meet the relevant requirements. Here you will find bundled knowledge and great course content that will accompany you over a period of time.

Sex Education

The sex education most of us got in our teenage years was focused on two things. The biological functions of our genitals and the risks associated with having sex, such as unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases.

Of course, this is very important information to have before becoming sexual active, but it is not sufficient. Learning how to pleasure ourselves and each other sexually is just as important.

Learning how to play with your own and other peoples genitalia is an important part of exploring sexual pleasure and experiences. How we learn to do so is often through experience. This can lead to some less than sexy encounters and experiences if you don’t know what you are doing. We want to help you to better understand your own and other people genitals in a sexual way. We want to help you have a better and healthier sex life where the focus is on exploring and meeting each other’s sexual needs.

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Evening Class

Needle Play

Needle Play

You have seen the nice pictures of decorative needles and want to be able to do it yourself? You like to poke other people and want to learn to really put something through their skin? You’re intrigued by needles? You like to play with blood? Then this is the workshop for you.

In this workshop I will teach you how and where you can safely pierce the body. I will talk about how the body works, how you handle the needles and make a safe working environment.

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Ichinawa – one rope play

Ichinawa, can be loosely translated from Japanese to one rope play.

Starting bondage can be very intimidating, the amount of ropes, techniques, knots and terms. Often it feels very overwhelming.

Ichinawa is a way to get away from all that. With the use of one rope, one knot and one friction the possibilities are endless.

It is about the connection between the rigger and model, it is about movement and restrictions, changing positions, waiting, seeing what happens, and reacting to your partner. Be creative, let the rope guide you.

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Tickel Eve

Tickel Evening

Like-minded or curious people come together at LUX to indulge their shared passion for tickling or being tickled. Besides skill sharing and getting to know each other, the focus today is on having fun.
After a short briefing and getting to know each other, the focus today is on the practice of tickling. In Mix & Match there is the possibility to gain tickling experiences with different people.

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Find your Persona

Do you enjoy playing and acting in certain roles in your life? Have you ever thought it would be fun to walk in someone else’s shoes for a while, or wondered how differently people would treat you if you were a different type of person?

We take an evening to delve into what it means to have an alter ego, the benefits of having a persona for oneself, especially within the context of SM play and for Sex Work professionals. We will explore and develop an existing or new persona together.

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Sex-Ed Safer Sex

When you want to expand your knowledge on safer sex practices, then this is the course for you.

Safer sex is so much more than just using condoms. This course will focus on all aspects of safer sex, for all genders and sexual orientations.

This course will be focusing on teaching people how to practice safer sex, including topics as consent and how to openly talk about it with your partner(s) without any shame.

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Sex-Ed Cock & Balls

If you are a fan and a lover of cock and balls, are just curious about all the different ways to play with them or simply need to learn some basics in how to handle them you might benefit from taking this course.

This course will be focusing on teaching people how to pleasure and play with the cock and balls along with some basic information and of course demonstrations on various toys and techniques.

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Sex-Ed Vulva & Vagina

You are interested in knowing more about the vulva & vagina? More about the basics and want to know how to play and handle the vulva & vagina sexually? Either because you would like to know more about your own body or because your partner has a vulva & vagina? Then this is the course for you.

This course will be focusing on teaching people all the dos and don’ts in playing with and pleasuring the vulva & vagina, along with some basic information and of course demonstrations on various toys and techniques. It will be a hands-on workshop where you can practice right away!

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Sex-Ed Anal

If you are a fan of anal play and want to expand your knowledge or are completely new to the subject and want to get into it but don’t know where to start, then this might be the course for you.

This course will be focusing on teaching people how to do anal play in a safe and fun way, along with basic information about anatomy (for both sexes).It will be a hands-on workshop where you can practice right away!

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Sex-Ed Sensation & Pressurepoints

General sex-ed does not mention sensations as a part of sex yet we know how adding a simple blindfold or the right kind of music can add to sexual pleasure and help set the mood. In relation to BDSM using senses and sensations is an important way to create the right atmosphere and start to a good session. There is much to experience and learn through this subject in relation to pleasure and pain. In this course we aim to go deeper into what sensations and sensory play has to offer when it comes to general pleasure and sex.

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Sex-Ed Breast & Nipple

The breasts and nipples are very important erogenous zones and for the most part only get mentioned in general sex-ed in reference to pregnancy and child rearing. This leaves out very important information on how to pleasure yourself or others through the thousands of nerve endings that everyone has in their breasts and nipples. There are many ways to play with these areas of the body and we aim teach people the basics of playing with their own or other peoples breasts and nipples.

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Day courses


Humiliation play can be a powerful way to explore your dominance and lead someone deliciously deeper into their submission.

This workshop is for the curious, whether you have BDSM experience or not. It is open to all who want to explore humiliation play and commit to respecting their own boundaries and those of others. Wear comfortable clothes and bring something to take notes with.

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Dominant Massage

Lady Lila combines her skills as an erotic masseuse with those of being a Domina and has been offering Dominant Massage for those into teasing pleasure with a side of adrenaline. This kind of massage can be as relaxing and enjoyable, or intense as you wish to make it. We will begin by feeling into our own bodies, covering briefly what makes a good erotic massage and Dom/sub session, before we explore how adding different elements of BDSM to the mix can enhance pleasure, trust and closeness.

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