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BDSM Beyond Binary – Skinship Naughty Queer Birthday Celebration

You’re Invited to Skinship’s Naughty Queer Birthday Celebration

Join us for a daring and delicious celebration of Skinship—a birthday unlike any other, filled with erotic exploration and juicy connections. Together, we’ll honor the wild, sex-positive spirit that has brought us here while setting the stage for deep intimacy, trust, and play.10 Skinship facilitators will join their creative forces to finely craft a 10-hour gourmet program for queer fun enthusiasts, with activities that blur the lines between celebration and transformation.

The whole day will be a Skinship-flavoured ritual weaving erotic arts and magic together with pleasure, creativity, courage and humor.

Through playful connection games and a gradual buildup of sensual energy, we’ll peel back the layers of inhibition and enter a shared world of surprising desires, slutty fantasies, tantalizing hugs, lustie eyes and moaning whispers.

As the day unfolds we unite in queer joy with plenty of enthusiastic YESes and friendship-gasms, together celebrating community and co-creating of a shared future.

Commit to the journey from beginning to end, and become part of a collective spell that fuels the dreams of tomorrow—a thriving community grounded in fierce care, fearless connection, mutual empowerment, and a brave shift from individual gain to collective vitality and well-being.

What to expect:

This event is for advanced players, meaning that you have previous experiences with sexpositive spaces and are skilled in communicating wishes, needs, desires and boundaries.

Whether it’s your first taste of Skinship or you’ve been part of the magic for years, you are invited to participate.

Skinship Facilitators

Meet your workshop facilitators:

SKINSHIP is a touch-based collective for queer, trans, non-binary, gender-fluid, agender, gender-expansive, and femme communities + friends. It focuses on restructuring and re-prioritizing the body as a vehicle for connection and safety, cultivating touch, pleasure, sexuality, playfulness, consent, boundaries, and friendship as forms of kinship activism.

pronouns: they/them, she/her, he/him, it/its

BDSM Beyond Binary – Queer Stripclub

An Interactive Workshop

Taking the roles of service providers and clients is the opportunity to playfully explore what we’re willing to give, and what we want. As a sex worker, Emilian will guide you through this process, while offering knowledge and advice on playing with these concepts in a way that is respectful of sex worker’s experiences and struggles. They will also provide tips about consent, and a lap dance demonstration. In this fun and intimate roleplay, you will have the experience of approaching the clients, offering them the services that you’re willing to provide, and being paid – not in actual money – but in compliments. You will also have the experience of being the client, having someone you don’t know coming to you to offer services, and choosing what you want to experience. Lap dances are on the menu, but also services like listening to someone, giving them a hug, or even a spank. No prior knowledge is required. You can participate even if you don’t feel like giving or receiving a lapdance. Come as you are, with the outfit and gender expression that make you feel good on that day!

Emilian

Emilian is a non-binary sex worker, workshop facilitator, performer and writer. They facilitate regular Consent workshops and a peer support group for sex workers at Hydra Cafe. They strive to fight the stigma sex workers face through performances, story-telling, poetry, and lectures. As part of the Anti-Stigma Hydra’s campaign, they co-wrote the free zine So You’re Dating A Sex Worker? They are part of Slut Riot, a group of Berlin-based sex workers who create performance art and shows. Slut Riot’s mission is to give a space to sex workers to take control over their own narratives narratives and to find creative outlets to express their voices.

Who can participate?

All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know.

Accessibility

People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.
In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.

Corona

Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution. The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.

 

BDSM Beyond Binary – Mindful Anal Fisting

Mindful Anal Fisting – very practical and sober.

Deep conversations and introductory arguments with Alexander Hahne and ToyTorture

The focus today is on the arse. As a queer person, have you always wanted to try anal fisting as a top? In this practical workshop there will be input on anatomy, preparation, toys and realisation. In addition to the theory, there will also be a demonstration. ToyTorture is available to us as a fisting bottom. You will get an insight into the experience from a top and bottom perspective. Afterwards you will have the opportunity to try out ToyTorture directly as a top under Alexander’s guidance. Appreciative observation and questions are possible.

In-depth discussions and introductory arguments with Alexander Hahne and ToyTorture. Theory, demo, exchange. Opportunity to try yourself out as a fisting top.

A Proteus Leather Club event, by queers for queers. The event is substance-free for everyone.

Alexander Hahne (he/ him)

Gay trans man, trainer and speaker for trans-specific topics in the field of sexual health, sex educator (gsp), somatic counselor, sexological bodyworker (ISB), systemic sex therapist (IGST), dancer and pleasure activist. Leader of workshops and individual counselling on the topics of body awareness, intimacy and sexuality. With my work I make a practical contribution to more visibility and inclusion of trans and non-binary people. Furthermore, I directly support them in their own experience of the body as well as the possibility of uncovering and using access to their own pleasurable potential.

http://www.alexanderhahne.com

https://www.instagram.com/alexander_hahne/

ToyTorture – https://toytorture.com/

Who can participate?

All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know. Wenn Du Dir unsicher bist, ob Du gemeint bist, melde Dich bitte.

Accessibility

People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.
In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.

Corona

Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.
The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.

 

BDSM Beyond Binary – Hot Ears

Kumi and Bendix will make your ears hot with poetry that will have you swoon and laugh, that will hold you, touch you, and let you fly, poetry that will make you happy to be queer, to be you, to be here.

Immerse yourself in the poetic worlds of two very different queer sex(y) artists at LUX. Enjoy a small exhibition, poetry in German and English and other little gems. There will be an art table with postcards, prints and zines by Bendix and Kumi, so come in your shopping mood!

Who can participate?

All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know. Wenn Du Dir unsicher bist, ob Du gemeint bist, melde Dich bitte.

Accessibility

People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.
In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.

Corona

Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.
The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.

BDSM Beyond Binary – Breathplay Workshop

This workshop will cover several technical and theoretical topics related to breathplay as a BDSM practice. Each aspect will be presented with detailed context and instructions to minimize the risks of the practice. There will be guided partnered demos and many occasions to experiment both for beginners and more experienced players. The group is kept small to be able to provide individual attention to all participants. THIS WORKSHOP WILL BE HELD IN ENGLISH

Hosts

Glenn (he/him)

TNG Milano co-founder, ex-BJJ competitor and rough/edge player. He likes to install people in many different predicaments and pornamental ways.

Felix (he/him)

Board at Quaelgeist e.V., Steppenbrand co-founder, eclectic fetishist and edge player. He likes to get into people’s minds and take their breath away. He has been teaching breathplay workshops for 13 years now.

 

Who can participate?

All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know.

Accessibility

People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.
In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.

Corona

Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution. The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.