BDSM Beyond Binary – The hottest play
The hottest play you could think of and how to get there
Close your eyes for a moment and imagine your hottest, most fulfilling play experience — the one that makes your body hum with anticipation.
What would it feel like to get it?
This workshop is about connecting with own desires. To listen to them. To trust that what turns you on — emotionally, physically, sexually — matters.
And finding a way to ask for it. And then possibly getting it, exactly that, no more, no less.
We’ll explore the questions:
Who is doing? For who?
and why those questions open the doorway to deeper, more connected experiences.
Through guided practices, gentle embodiment work, and partnered or triad exercises, we’ll play with
• Sensing what you truly want (not what you think you should want).
• Feeling where your yes, no, and maybe live in your body.
• Discovering the sweet spot between wanting and willing.
You decide any time, how you want to participate, therefor we will take it slow.
Expect laughter, tenderness, curiosity, and a touch of mischief as we untangle old patterns and celebrate the full-bodied yeses and the empowered nos that set the tone for a juicy, connected conference.
And expect a feeling of deep well-being when you get EXACTLY what you asked for, without guilt or shame.

Puma
(he/they)
I´ve been working in the field of consent for many years. I am thrilled to see what happens with people when they fell safe enough to deep into own desires and finding a way to ask for their wants and probaply (this is not always given) getting them fulfilled. My superpower is laughter and humour and make people feel ease, when they face a challenge.
Who can participate?
All events are by and for queers, trans*, genderfluids, genderqueers, non-binaries of all kinds. Self-definition applies. If you are unsure whether you are meant, please let us know. Wenn Du Dir unsicher bist, ob Du gemeint bist, melde Dich bitte.
Accessibility
People have different needs and wishes for events and rooms. Please let us know at queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de what you need to participate in an event.
In the BDSM Studio Lux course center there is an elevator accessible by 4 steps on the first floor and on the 3rd floor. There is no ramp.
Corona
Masks are compulsory at BDSM Studio Lux. Please come to the studio 15 minutes before the start of each event. Corona tests will be ready. Masks will only be removed once all participants have consensually and actively agreed. Masks must be worn in the corridors at all times.
Costs
Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.
The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.
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