BDSM coaching in Berlin
Individual one-to-one coaching with experienced professionals from Studio LUX:
online or in person at our location.
Whether you're a beginner, experienced, or a professional, you'll find the coaching that suits you with us. Each session is individually tailored to you and led by experienced professionals from our team.
From communication and technique to role-playing, emotional depth, safety, and aftercare: we cover the entire spectrum of BDSM. We always remain practical and coach with great sensitivity.
BDSM needs to be learned, and we know how to support you in that.
Who is the coaching for?
- Beginners, who certainly want to gain initial experience
- Experienced, who wish to deepen their skills
- Couples, who want to refine their dynamics
- (Aspiring) professionals, who are looking for sound training or further education
- All with questions about BDSM, sexuality and kink, who want to develop further
That's how it works
1
Choose a topic or coach
Choose a topic from our program or a specific coach. Nothing suitable? Simply request your own topic..
2
Book format & duration
Theory online, theory on-site, or practical training in the studio. You book as many hours as you like, in the format that suits you best.
3
Appointment & Session
After payment, we will connect you with your coach and you will arrange your appointment together.
Book your coaching session
Choose your format. You specify the topic or coach directly during booking. The price is per hour; of course, you can book multiple hours.
Our program
Here you'll find the topics in which our coaches will guide you with expertise and passion. Of course, you can also Request your own topic!
Basics & Introduction
- BDSM Basics: Orientation and Getting Started
- Which kink suits me?
- D/s dynamics for beginners
- Communication: Needs, boundaries and respect
- Safety & Risk in BDSM (SSC, RACK & Safe Play)
- Embodied Consensus
- Pain basics
- Self-confidence & shame in the BDSM context
Practices & Techniques
- Impact Play
- Rope bondage & bondage without rope
- Sensory games
- Role-playing & Ritual Play
- Humiliation
- Dominant massage & dirty talk
- Feminization & Gender Play
- Pet Play
- Anal play / Pegging
- Needle Play (from 2 hours)
- Psychological Games & Mindfucks
- Sovereign dominance
Relationship, Communication & Dynamics
- First steps in BDSM for couples
- Communicating your own needs & boundaries
- D/s rituals & protocols as a relationship element
- Developing scenes together
- Session planning, negotiation & aftercare for couples
- Kink & Non-Monogamy
- Queer & political perspectives on kink
- Integrating taboos and fetishes into relationships
Professionalization & Specialist Coaching
- Entry into professional sex work
- Dramaturgy of a session
- Striking technique for professionals
- Sovereign dominance for professionals
- Use room design and atmosphere strategically
- Ethics & Responsibility in BDSM
- Advertising, marketing & legal framework
- Empowerment for trans and non-binary sex workers
Our coaches
Erfahrene Profis mit ganz unterschiedlichen Schwerpunkten begleiten dich, dabei sind wir wertfrei und begegnen dir auf Augenhöhe. Du kannst dir eine*n bestimmte*n Coach wünschen oder dein Request topic and we'll connect you with the right expertise.
Lina TwistLina Twist is a BDSM enthusiast with heart and mind. Privately as a switch and professionally as a bizarre lady and dominatrix.
Saga Morosprofessional dominance since 2019Saga Moros moved to Berlin from Iceland in 2019 to start a career as a Professional Dominatrix to delve deeper into her fascination and love for the human anatomy and psychology in connection with sexuality and sex.
Selina MorganPro Dominatrix since 2017Selina Morgan is a queer dominatrix, workshop leader, activist, performer, and producer of adult content.
Tamara SolidorTamara Solidor has worked in various areas of sex work for many years – in brothels, as an escort and inclusive sex work, as a submissive and BDSM mistress. As a coach, she supports people in recognizing their own needs, setting boundaries, and living self-determined lives.
Velvet SteelDEENProfessional Domina since 2003, founder & director of Studio LUX since 2015, coach & mentor since 2012With over 20 years of professional experience as a dominatrix, I pass on my expertise as the manager of Studio LUX.Coaching + Private Rentals
Do you want to put what you've learned into practice right away? After your coaching session, you will receive... 10 % discount for the subsequent private use of our rooms. Use one of our themed rooms and enjoy BDSM at its finest.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does a coaching session work?
You choose a topic or a coach and book your format. After payment, we will contact you with your coach, and together you will agree on the content and date.
Online or in person?
You can book theory coaching sessions online or at our studio. As soon as practical content is added, the coaching takes place on-site in our fully equipped Domina Studio LUX in Berlin.
Can I book multiple hours?
Sometimes one hour isn't enough, we completely understand. You can book as many hours as you need. If you're unsure, write to us and we'll advise you!
What if I can't find my topic?
No problem, just ask your own topic We'll connect you with the person who's the best match.
How discreet is that?
Your privacy is important to us. We treat all conversations and sessions confidentially and without judgment.
Questions? Write us!
Do you have a question or would you like to request a topic? Write to us right here, and we'll get back to you as soon as possible.