The experience of providing and receiving intimate services – such as a lapdance, a hug, a light spank – is an opportunity to explore what we’re willing to give, and what we want.
What to expect
As a sex worker, Emilian will guide you through this process, while offering knowledge and advice on playing with these concepts in a way that is respectful of sex worker’s experiences and struggles. They will also provide tips about consent, and a lap dance demonstration. In this fun and intimate roleplay, you will have the experience of approaching others to offer them the services that you’re willing to provide, and being paid – not in actual money – but in compliments. You will also have the experience of having someone you don’t know coming to you to offer services, and choosing what you want to experience. Lap dances are on the menu, but also services like listening to someone, giving them a hug, or even a spank. No prior knowledge is required. You can participate even if you don’t feel like giving or receiving a lap dance. Come as you are, with the outfit and gender expression that make you feel good on that day!
For Who
This event is by and for kinky queer people. If you're unsure whether it applies to you, please get in touch.
Accessibility
People have different needs and preferences regarding events and spaces. Please let us know what you need to participate in an event by emailing queer@bdsm-studio-lux.de.
The BDSM Studio Lux course center has an elevator, accessible via four steps on the ground floor and the third floor. Unfortunately, there is no ramp.
Cost
Throughout the entire queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.
The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals, with 80 % going towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media, and print media, and 10% is allocated to the organizing person.
Guest Lectures
Emilian
Emilian is a non-binary s*x worker, workshop facilitator, performer and writer. They facilitate regular Consent workshops and a peer support group for sex workers at Hydra Cafe. They strive to fight the stigma sex workers face through performances, story-telling, poetry, and lectures. As part of the Anti-Stigma Hydra’s campaign, they co-wrote the free zine „So You’re Dating A Sex Worker?“. They are part of Slut Riot, a group of Berlin-based sex workers who create performance art and shows. Slut Riot’s mission is to give a space to sex workers to take control over their own narratives and to find creative outlets to express their voices.