Domina training
Learn from the pros at BDSM Studio LUX:
We'll teach you what you need to start your career - in 12 modules and 4 packages,
From session setup to sex worker marketing to customer acquisition.
Do you want to do more than just experience BDSM, but work with it professionally? With us, you'll learn the craft from the ground up. Our training accompanies you from the first theoretical module to your own independent session, tailored to your goals and your pace.
Who is the training for?
- Beginners, who work professionally with BDSM and want to start safely
- Active sex workers & professionals, who wish to further their education, specialize and professionalize
- Ambitious practitioners, who want to take BDSM to a new level in their private lives
Module or package?
You decide how you learn. There are two ways to reach your goal, and you can combine them.
- Packages These are comprehensive learning pathways, composed of modules for targeted training with a clear vision.
- Module These are specific topics that consist of several units and allow for an optimal deep dive.
Our packages
Complete training programs combining theory and practice, offered as a package at a lower price than the sum of the individual modules. Not sure which one is right for you? Book a consultation, together we'll find your way.
Individual modules
Do you want to learn something specific or refresh your knowledge? Book individual modules as needed. The badges indicate whether a module is geared towards professional work (Pro) or private practice (Private).
This is how the training works
1
Advice & Path
In the consultation, we will clarify your goal and find the right path: a package or individual modules.
2
Book
You book your package or modules. We will credit you for the consultation.
3
theory
You will learn the basics, legal aspects, communication and your professional profile, online or on-site with us.
4
Practice
You will practice real sessions, accompanied by experienced coaches, with a real counterpart or experienced Practice person.
5
Let's get started
You will leave the training with a solid foundation and be able to work independently and confidently.
Start with a consultation
Are you unsure which path is right for you? In a personal consultation (1 hour, 50 euros), we'll clarify your goals, your current situation, and your options. If you then decide to pursue training, we'll credit you the 50 euros.
Who is training you?
My path
I have been working professionally in BDSM for almost 20 years, and since 2015 in my own studio LUX in Berlin.
When I started out, there were no comprehensive training programs. I had to change that.
From practice for practice
I'll teach you what really matters in the professional work environment. My knowledge comes from my many years of active practical experience. This keeps the training concrete and applicable. We'll keep your career goals in mind throughout.
How I train
I take a hands-on approach and prefer direct communication. A touch of humor is always part of the process; our profession is demanding enough. I take your abilities and limitations seriously and structure your training to suit your pace. I regularly review my methods to ensure you're learning with the latest techniques.
For your professional start
As your mentor, I'll guide you as an aspiring professional with my many years of experience. As head of Studio LUX, I work daily with a highly professional team of colleagues. This keeps me at the forefront of the industry and allows me to optimally prepare you for a successful career.
My credo
Practicing BDSM professionally is an art. I'll give you the foundation on which you can forge your own path. I don't offer a certificate, but I do provide applicable expertise and the ability to perfect your own career.
I'm looking forward to accompanying you!
Do you have questions about your journey? Then book a Consultation, we'll look together at what suits you.
Teamwork makes the dream work
Your success is our shared goal. In my coaching work, I am supported by a strong team of experienced and specialized experts. Together, we ensure that you have the right, competent, and dedicated contact person by your side for every concern. This way, you not only receive individual support but also benefit from the combined expertise of our entire coaching team.
What makes us special: We place the utmost importance on thorough, diverse, and continuous training. Because we know: Every person is unique, and your personal BDSM journey deserves tailored guidance. With our support, you'll find clarity, direction, and the necessary strength to achieve your goals sustainably.
Want to know who can accompany you on your journey? Here you can find an overview of our team.
This is what our customers say about us
Vor 10 Jahren belegte ich einen Profi SM Intensivkurs im Lux. Zum einen ging es um die Session selbst, diesen wie aus der Zeit gefallenen, entrückten Raum, den wir schaffen. Praktisches Wissen. Erfahrungen. Ich war wie elektrisiert, aufgeregt, alles fachlich zu vertiefen. Zum anderen bekam ich einen klaren, strukturierten Blick auf die notwendige Arbeit hinter den Kulissen, die für Selbstständige unabdingbar ist (Rechtliches, Werbung etc.). Der Kurs gab mir ein wertvolles Fundament für meine berufliche Professionalisierung. Danke an Velvet Steel und alle weiteren am Intensivkurs beteiligten Kolleg:innen!
Dahlia Nyx
Bizarre Lady
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After a long break, I’ve returned to my career as a dominatrix. Since I was missing the routine, I attended a few workshops and skill-sharing sessions at Lady Velvet Steel and was able to refresh my knowledge. I felt well taken care of there and highly recommend the workshops!
Madame Eve Astra
Domina
Website
Coaching with Lady Velvet Steel was the best decision I could make for kickstarting my career as a dominatrix in Berlin. She gave me all the resources I needed to transform my private BDSM experience into a business – I can wholeheartedly recommend her!
Anki Slay
Bizarre Lady
Website
Thanks to the coaching with Lady Velvet Steel, I finally dared to make my dreams for the future a reality. Pure empowerment!
Lola Auryn
Bizarre Lady
Lady Velvet Steel's Dominatrix training was incredibly practical and personalized, guiding me step-by-step from my starting point with a direct yet empathetic approach that felt perfectly tailor-made! I highly recommend her program to anyone looking to master the art with confidence and skill!
Khedesha Naira
Bizarre Lady
Magical Moments
Thanks to the one-on-one training with Lady Velvet Steel, I've arrived in my career today confident, successful, and professional – I couldn't have imagined a better start! The practical training, comprehensive insider knowledge, and individual support gave me exactly the know-how that truly matters in the market!
Lara Vixette
Bizarrlady & Sub
websiteLet's get down to brass tacks!
What can you expect from dominatrix training?
Design your training flexibly and individually
Our modules allow you to tailor your training to your individual timeframe and resources. Together, we'll create a suitable schedule for each module or package. We design the units flexibly, making them easy to combine with family and work.
Our goal is to provide you with a concise and practical foundation for your career. However, we also understand how life sometimes works: flexibility is important, and we take that into account.
You will receive exactly the knowledge that suits you.
We tailor the content of our training specifically to your individual situation.
- Are you already working in another area of sex work? Then you need different marketing strategies than someone who has no prior experience in self-employment.
- Do you want to start as a private individual? Even then, your learning content will benefit from our many years of experience.
In any case, we will react flexibly and provide you with exactly the expertise that will help you move forward.
The fact is: The profession of a BDSM professional is multifaceted.
The requirements, working methods, and attitudes are just as diverse. That's why we don't offer a "one size fits all" training program. Your training program will be individually tailored to you.
What can you expect from us?
- We focus on what's essential: the topics that will truly help you move forward.
- Your prior experience and resources will be respected and taken into account.
We will gladly answer your questions in a personal consultation. Consultation. The costs will be fully credited to you upon booking, so you lose nothing. And the best part: Should it turn out that a Group workshop or Coaching Your credit will also apply to the item that is better suited for you.
You already know what you want? Fantastic! Then you can tailor your training program to your individual needs. Your personal training program will be based on your wishes, your prior knowledge, and your goals. Contact us, together we can do it!
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need prior experience?
Don't worry, we'll meet you where you are. Often, you already have far more knowledge than you realize; we'll teach you everything else. The important thing is that you're serious about exploring BDSM and approach the topic with an open mind. We'll take care of everything else.
I'm already working, but I have a few specific topics in mind. Am I in the right place?
It's great that you already have experience. Perhaps you're new to this, or looking for coaching in specific areas? We can help you with that. We'll define the topics together and get you up to speed!
If you are specifically looking for a particular topic-related coaching session, you can also here look around.
Can I also train to be a submissive?
If you want to work submissively, you've come to the right place. The fundamentals of professional BDSM work encompass all inclinations. And for the specific aspects of working as a submissive, we have experienced colleagues on board who will teach you the necessary know-how.
As a man, I'm not a dominatrix, am I?
You are a Dominus, or you can become one.
Domina training is also Dominus training. Men in professional BDSM are becoming increasingly popular, and we think that's great! With us, you'll find an excellent start to your career, regardless of the type of clients you want to work with.
Dominatrix, Bizarre Lady, I don't understand. Can you explain?
You've stumbled right into a peculiarity of the German/European market. Most people have a certain image of a dominatrix: a strict woman dressed in black patent leather and leather, who always looks stern.
The reality is more diverse: Dominas aren't just strict and completely unapproachable; sex and eroticism have now found their way into BDSM. A Bizarre Lady is a dominant person who is kinky and more approachable. How far each Bizarre Lady goes is entirely up to her. So now there are touchable Dominas, kinky Bizarre Ladies, and fetish playmates. In short: BDSM is multifaceted, and you determine your offering! I've written a blog post about this: CLICK!
What about the practice participants, should I bring one with me?
Excellent question! We have a pool of experienced Practice participants, ...who are available to us for practical work. These are people who have been involved in our courses for a long time. When selecting them, we place great emphasis on personality, communication skills, and experience.
If you prefer to bring your own practice partners, that's perfectly fine too. We're open to that. Private individuals especially often like to come with their partner.
What happens during a consultation?
Lady Velvet Steel will dedicate a full hour to you. all your questions about our training will be answered. What prior knowledge is helpful, how long does it take, is it a package or a module, can content be exchanged, added, or omitted, we can discuss all this and much more.
And the best part is: you get the full price credited towards your training.
Can I pay in installments?
At first glance, a package like this seems quite expensive. But if you look inside, you'll see how much time, effort, and expertise went into it. Of course, we understand that money isn't always as readily available as we'd like. That's why we can tailor our training programs to your individual budget. So far, we've always found a way.