BDSM Beyond Binary – Blasphemy

Blessed be the deviant, defiant, & damned.

On the holiest of leather weekends, we gather—not only to repent, but to revel in and with each other. **BLASPHEMY** is a queer & trans-only play party where desire is sacred, pleasure is ritual, pain is pious, and sin redefined on our own terms.

A night for those who understand that ecstasy is power, and that subverting all the rules is its own kind of devotion. We will reject narratives of social shame and embrace our bodies in all their unmistaken, sinful glory. Whether you come to kneel, confess, commune, or transgress, our altar is abundant for those who dare worship at the temple of all things impudent, irreverent, and brazen.

BLASPHEMY is for queer, TIN & friends. Dress code: Ritualistic, sacrilege, occultisms. Think: perverse priests, unholy nuns, genderfucked saints, fallen angels, leather-clad altar bois, ruinous dieties. **No street clothes. No exceptions.**

PERFORMER BIOGRAPHIES 

Jamie (none/they/he) is a queer transmasculine person. They combine dominance, creativity, dedication, and expertise with a presence that transcends the boundaries of gender and norms, embracing fluidity in all forms. Jamie is bringing a seductive pet play & light age play number to the stage, featuring an intimate exchange with a sub. They’ll dive into power dynamics & playful surrender, teasing the line between care and control.

Domina Moir Div (they/them) is a Domme, rigger and creatrix who loves becoming an artist thru mind and bodies as their medium; Self discovery and transformation is their light guide. Dissolute and dark, they will sculpt their muses into an intricate bonded dance of surrender and captured beauty, as they expose and explore bodies tied and suspended.

HOUSE RULES

• We value consent, learning together, personal autonomy, sex & kink positivity, and curiosity– meaning, we take care & listen to others when they say no, understand we need each other to grow, do not shame others for their desires, and engage an environment where people can explore their kinks creatively.
• We do not tolerate racism, xenophobia, transphobia, cis/sexism, whorephobia, classism, ableism, or colorism in this space. However, we are aware these “-isms” & “-phobias” may arise and will tend to them with care, repair, and acknowledgement when they do. Guests who perpetuate will be asked to change their behavior once, but if they continue to perpetuate any of the above, they will be asked to leave.
• This is a space that centers the needs, desires, wants, pleasures, & experiences of queer, trans*, intersex, non-binary, gender-diverse folks.
• If you feel you have been hurt or harmed in this space, you can approach one of the organizers/space holders so we can engage a process of acknowledgement, apology, mediation or repair as needed and desired.
• We encourage all participants to tend to their needs as they come up–you will not be judged for sitting out, stepping away, seeking fresh air, taking pause, drinking water, or eating a snack as you need throughout the evening. If you need help taking care, please approach one of the organizers/space-holders!
• Please come self-tested negative for Covid (see below). A few spare tests will be available at the door.

Who can participate

This is a party is for queer & trans kinksters + friends. This is a space that centers the desire, pain & pleasure of queer and trans* folks; friends of queer & TIN folk are welcome to participate as long as they are mindful of the space they are moving through.

Accesibility

There are two play spaces and and one bathroom are accessible by wheelchair. If you have any accessibility needs, please contact Mercy at mercystj@proton.me and we will do our best to tend to your specific needs!

Corona

Please come tested for corona. There will be tests provided at the door for you if you are not able to access a test before arrival. Guests who test on-site are asked to wear masks until their test is negative.

Costs

Throughout the queer event series, the focus is on a policy of accessibility, transparency and redistribution.
The prices are calculated by the respective collectives and individuals and 90% of them go towards their work. A further 10% is used for advertising in magazines, social media and print media.